I work as a part-time accountant. Mostly remote clients. Flexible hours, modest income. Nothing impressive by Dixon family standards, but I never told them about the other thing I do. The thing I started three years ago after my life fell apart in a different way. I never told them I’d learned to see.
Let me paint you a picture of what helping out looks like in the Dixon family.
Thanksgiving. I arrive at 6 a.m. to start the turkey. I set the table with my mother’s Wedgwood china. The set I’m not allowed to use, only to wash. I arrange the flowers, polish the silver, coordinate the timing of seven side dishes. Megan arrives at noon in a cashmere sweater, kisses everyone hello, and sits down to be served.
Christmas, same routine, plus wrapping all the presents my mother bought because her arthritis is acting up. Funny how her arthritis never stops her from playing bridge three times a week.
Birthday parties for my niece and nephew. I’m the entertainment coordinator, the cleanup crew, and the backup babysitter allinone. Last year, I spent 8 hours running Oliver’s dinosaur themed party while Megan got a manicure because she needed a break.
The one time I asked if maybe, just maybe, I could skip a family event because I had a deadline for a client, my mother’s voice went cold. Family comes first, Wendy. We all make sacrifices.
Except I’m the only one who ever seems to make them.
The breaking point comes in small moments. Like the year I got my Christmas gift, a kitchen apron that said world’s best aunt in glittery letters. Megan gave it to me. She smiled like she’d done something thoughtful. I wore it. I wore it every single time I came over to cook, clean, and babysit.
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